After we get used to our partners and spend lots of time together we tend to get stuck in our daily routine. Everything loses its magical feel and all falls into the daily cycle of life. Even the smallest and most precious details between lovers can be a daily thing. To get past that phase and the boredom of routine, we give you a list of five things to do to regain your spark.
First, you need to say yes to your partner more often. Allow them the pleasure of feeling right and validated. Agree to their requests and ideas. That would make them feel confident and comfortable in the relationship. They will feel in charge and heard. That includes accepting it when they say no. we always get mad when our loved ones refuse what we want. It goes both ways. If you agree to disagree, they will feel more secured, appreciated, and understood. That would make them appreciate their interactions with you and feel more comfortable reaching out to you.
Second, it is always a good idea shower your partner with complements and playful remarks and messages from time to time. It will reignite the feeling and keep the spark alive. If you feed the flame it will turn into a fire. The same with your partner, they will respond and things will get more romantic and fun.
Third, you always have to be prepared to meet your partner. A preparation that they might notice. It’d be awesome if your partner came home or woke up to find you nicely and freshly dressed, the house smelling nice and the bathroom is ready for their shower. Whether you’re a man or a woman, it is always a treat for your partner to find you prepared for them.
Fourth, the most popular idea: date nights. Find a babysitter for the kids, or send them to one of your moms, get well dressed and go to a nice place. Do an activity together, watch a movie, catch a play, have a chat at a nice restaurant or café. Get to talk to each other and just have fun. Be together without the burden of the responsibilities and change the usual topics you talk about every day.
Fifth and most importantly, be their friend. That way you can talk about everything and share all the details. You can always have fun late at night laughing at all the funny details at work or at home. When you are friends, you’ll always find things to talk and joke about.